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Sex: you’re doing it wrong

thecuntmentality:

genderbitch:

• Sex is not “trying to score”
• Sex is not about getting numbers in
• There is no fucking quota you have to meet.
• Sexual partners are partners, not statistics
• Sex is not a revenge tool
• Sex is not a weapon.

And if someone doesn’t want it, you’re raping them.

• Reluctance is not wanting it.
• “Putting up with it” is not wanting it.
• Drunk and nonfunctional is not wanting it.
• Unconscious is not wanting it.
• Wearing certain clothing is not wanting it.
• Bugging someone until they say yes out of exasperation is not wanting it
• Being afraid of you is not wanting it.
• Hugging you is not wanting it
• Cuddling you is not wanting it
• Being naked near you is not wanting it
• Having lots of sexual partners is not wanting it
• Needing to stop during it is not wanting it.
• Calling out the safe word is not wanting it.
• Crying is not wanting it
• Struggling away is not wanting it
• Going limp and unresponsive is not wanting it.

Truth.